swear words always make you look bad and sound terrible. you should talk to your friends, not about them. decide that you are worth it and then act that way. (AND dress that way.) realize that a boy doesn't define you or determine your happiness. you do. the easiest way to avoid drama is to remove yourself from it. own your mistakes. and make them right. right away. don't say something that isn't true. remember an opinion is not a fact. understand that beauty is not determined by how you look, but by how you live. love is not something to be thrown around. or used carelessly. or taken for granted. (and it's not something you owe anybody for.) accept who you are. all of you. and believe that God made you for a purpose. honor yourself. with your words. with your actions. with your life. be truthful. be you. be nice.